Erasing Family, a Documentary Film Co-Produced by CCMF

Public Policy


Justin Trottier, Executive Director
Canadian Centre for Men and Families


Watch the film.

Learn more about parental alienation in order to reduce its prevalence.

Contact us and Get More Involved:

1. Organize your own screening.

2. Join or start a support group for alienated parents

3. Advance public policies that makes separation and divorce healthier for children.

Donate to support the film screening and policy work, receive charity receipt

Erasing Family, Co-Produced by the Canadian Centre for Men and Families, is a ground-breaking documentary film that spotlights the devastating consequences of parental alienation. The film led directly to global efforts to reform divorce and family law.

Contact us to arrange a screening.

A loving parent being erased from the life of his or her child is one of the most significant public health crises of our time. In Canada and the US, over 25 million parents are being erased – for no good reason – from their children’s lives after divorce or separation.

Watch the trailer for Erasing Family

For background on the film and to find out how you can watch it, visit

Join a mass movement of citizens working to make progressive change happen across Canada.

Erasing Family spotlights the devastating consequences of parental alienation. The documentary follows young adults fighting to reunite with their broken families and offers a concrete road-map for public policy and community service improvements.

Nanos poll: 70% of Canadians support a rebuttable presumption of equal parenting and only 13% oppose it. See 2017 Nanos Equal Parenting Poll.pdf

Prior to these public events, the film was screened privately to great acclaim at the conferences for the Association of Family & Conciliation Courts, the American Psychological Association and the Parental Alienation Study Group


“It’s hard when you have to stop and think that your child wants nothing to do with you because of what they’ve been taught.”
– Dizzy Lerner, Alienated father, as interviewed in the documentray Erasing Family

“One parent gets to be a parent and the other gets to be at best a visitor and at worst completely erased.”
– Dr. Christine Giancarlo, Anthropologist, Mount Royal University (Calgary), and author, Parentectomy

“I want to hug my daughter but I can’t. And I couldn’t get any help.”
– Kris, Client, Father support group at the Canadian Centre for Men and Families

“Parental alienation devastates families. I’ve spoken to young fathers who were suicidal. There’s not much support, other than the Canadian Centre for Men and Families, for fathers who are alienated and trying to rebuild relationships with their kids”
– George, Client, Father support group at the Canadian Centre for Men and Families

About the Film

Erasing family bonds after divorce or separation is a leading cause of preventable childhood trauma. For change to happen, non-victims and institutions need to make divorce part of their agenda of social reform. Through personal narratives and legal analysis, Erasing Family educates families on how to make informed choices and mobilize representatives. Audiences will leave knowing that courtroom custody battles and their emotional consequences can be prevented with court reform and laws that promote shared parenting, as well as shifting resources to help families instead of encouraging them to fight.

Told from the point view of the children, Erasing Family attempts to heal from the consequences of courtroom decisions while endeavoring to build a DIY grassroots movement for social change. While the stories told are tragic, we show that happy endings are possible and inspire other children to reunite with their erased families.

The need is urgent. Although over 70% of Canadians support a presumption of equal parenting by mothers and fathers in the event of separation or divorce, and despite research showing that equal parenting has the best outcomes for children, legislative efforts have been repeatedly blocked. Efforts to reform family court by streamlining protocols and offering free or low cost mediation services remain fractured. We are determined to raise awareness that erasing family bonds after divorce or separation is one of the leading cause of preventable childhood trauma and through the film, trigger a mass movement to preserve family bonds.

CCMF hosted all Canadian Premiere Screenings of Erasing Family.

Past Canadian Premiere Events

Lethbridge: Saturday, November 9. Doors open 3:15pm. Movie starts 3:30pm. The Movie Mill @ 1710 Mayor Magrath Dr S, Lethbridge, AB T1K 2R5
Brampton: Wednesday, November 13 at 6:30PM. Brampton Towers Party Room, 85 Charolais Boulevard, Brampton, Ontario, L6Y2R8
Barrie, Ontario: Friday, November 22 at 7:00PM. 12 Chase McEachern Way, Barrie, ON, L4M1A1
Medicine Hat: Saturday, November 23 at 2:00pm. Esplanade Studio Theatre @ 401 First St SE, Medicine Hat, AB, T1A8W2
Calgary: Wednesday, October 9 at 7:00PM. Jenkins Theatre (Room I115), Mount Royal University. 4825 Mt Royal Gate SW., Calgary, Alberta, T3E 6K6
Toronto: Thursday, October 10 at 7:00PM and Friday, October 18 at 7:00PM. JJR Macleod Auditorium, Medical Sciences Building. 1 King’s College Circle, Toronto, Ontario, M5S3K1
Saskatoon: October 12, 2019 at 7:00PM
Edmonton: October 17 at 7:00PM. Theatre L1-190, Edmonton Clinic Health Academy (ECHA) Building, University of Alberta, 11405 87 Ave NW, Edmonton, AB T6G 1C9
Ottawa: Friday, October 18 at 7:00PM. Champlain Room, Ottawa City Hall, 110 Laurier Ave W, Ottawa, Ontario, K1P 1J1
Winnipeg: Saturday, October 19 at 2:30PM. Ambassador E Room, Canad Inns Destination Centre Windsor Park, 1034 Elizabeth Rd, Winnipeg, MB R2J 1B3, Dauphin, MB
Vancouver: Sunday, November 3. Doors open 2:00PM. Screening starts 3:00PM. The Theatre at UBC Robson Square, 800 Robson Street, Vancouver, BC Canada V6Z 3B7


New Documentary Exposes Trauma Inflicted on Children by Canada’s Family Court System

Canadian Screenings of “Erasing Family” Start Oct 9th, Run in Calgary, Toronto, Ottawa, Edmonton, Vancouver, Winnipeg, Saskatoon, Lethbridge and Medicine Hat

TORONTO, ON — (October 8, 2019) – The new documentary Erasing Family gives voice to the avoidable trauma experienced by over one million Canadian children of divorcing parents. The film will premiere at venues across Canada starting October 9th, with screenings scheduled in Calgary, Toronto, Ottawa, Edmonton, Vancouver, Winnipeg, Saskatoon, Lethbridge and Medicine Hat.
The goal of this film is to make family break-up healthier for children by offering a concrete road-map for policy and service improvements. This message resonates with a broad consensus that we have a broken family law system that urgently needs repair.

“With an election around the corner, the film is a wake up call to policy makers to work toward structural reform that puts children first,” said Justin Trottier, Executive Director of the Canadian Centre for Men and Families, a men’s health agency that co-produced the film.

The film interviews activists for change who believe the most impactful remedy would be a presumption of equal parenting between mothers and fathers in the event of separation or divorce. Although a Nanos poll showed that 70% of Canadians support equal parenting and only 13% oppose it, and despite social science research demonstrating that equal parenting provides the best outcomes for children, legislative efforts have been repeatedly blocked.

The film’s prequel, Erasing Dad, which explored parental alienation in South America, was originally banned from YouTube because it exposed how some professionals make money by keeping parents and children separated. The ban was overturned, the film became incredibly popular and it helped to improve family law in Argentina.

For full information and the screening schedule, visit


Justin Trottier
Executive Director,
Canadian Centre for Men and Families
The Canadian Centre for Men and Families is a men’s health and social service agency with offices across Canada.


CCMF Legal Fund

Public Policy


Justin Trottier, Executive Director
Canadian Centre for Men and Families

We received intervenor status in our first case before the Supreme Court of Canada.

In R v Langan, our legal team offered unique testimony on the use of male gender stereotypes in ascertaining credibility and argued before the highest court that false and damaging beliefs about male sexual insatiability should be seen as the male equivalents to the established rape myths.

Support the CCMF Legal Fund

This first success in receiving intervenor status makes it easier for CCMF to apply for standing in future cases and could allow us to impact landmark legal decisions that affect thousands of families. But only with your help.

Dr. James Brown's Odyssey for Equality, Sponsored by CCMF

Public Policy

Male Youth

December 9, 2016In Academic, Male Youth


Justin Trottier, Executive Director
Canadian Centre for Men and Families

After a forty year career in education, during which he has held virtually every position possible in the profession, Dr. James S. Brown is currently undertaking a new project aimed at raising public awareness about the issue of gender equality, especially as it applies in education. He has begun a multi-country tour, speaking with educational and community leaders about the problem of the increasing degree to which boys are underachieving in and disengaged by school, and the long-term consequences of our society’s apparent lack of interest in issues which impact disproportionately on boys.

The tour, which he is calling his Odyssey for Equality, includes stops in the UK, in a number of states in the USA, and in most of the Canadian provinces. The major theme is the problem of the underachievement of boys in school, its causes, consequences and solutions. Dr. Brown has already addressed groups in Florida in the USA, in Norwich and London in the UK, and in various locations in southern Ontario. He has an extensive schedule of meetings and presentations in Ontario in May and June, and in the western provinces in July and August. Please check the schedule and watch for the tour as it arrives in a location near you this summer.

The Canadian Centre for Men and Families is a proud sponsor of the “Odyssey for Equality” currently being undertaken by our Advisory Fellow Dr. James Brown. In ongoing instalments on these CCMF blogs, James will update us on his travels, as he raises awareness of the educational issues facing boys in Canada. Here is his schedule and below is his first report:




July 3 – North Bay
July 4 – Sault Ste Marie
July 5 – Marathon
July 6 – Thunder Bay
July 7 – Ignace
July 8 – Kenora


July 9 – 10 – Winnipeg

July 10, 7:00 pm
Meeting Room 1
Sir William Stephenson Branch, Winnipeg Public Library
765 Keewatin Street


July 11 – Moosomin
July 12 – 14 – Regina

Sat July 13 Regina 10:30 am
Large Meeting Room 1
William Bothwell Branch, Regina Public Library
Southland Mall, 2965 Gordon Rd


July 15 – 19 – Medicine Hat

July 20 Lethbridge 10:30 am
Friends Meeting Room 1
Crossings Branch, Lethbridge Public Library
255 Britannia Blvd West

July 21 – Strathmore
July 22 -23 – Calgary

July 23 Calgary 6:30 pm
Meeting Room 1
Memorial Park Branch, Calgary Public Library,
1221- 2nd Street SW

July 24 – 25 – Banff
Fri    26 – Red Deer
Sat    27 – Drayton Valley

July 27 Red Deer 10:30 am
Snell Auditorium
Main Branch, Red Deer Public Library
4818 – 49th Street
Red Deer

July   28 – 30 Edmonton

July 29 Edmonton 7:00 pm
Edmonton Room
Stan Milner Branch
Edmonton Public Library
7 Winston Churchill Square

July 31 – Lloydminster

July 31 Lloydminster 7:00 pm Meeting Room 1
Main Branch,
Lloydminster Public Library
Lower Level, Atrium Centre
5010 – 49th Street



August 1 – 2 – Saskatoon

Aug 1 Saskatoon 7:00 pm
Frances Morrison Branch, Saskatoon Public Library
311 – 23rd Street East

July 3 – Yorkton/Regina
July 4 – Regina


July 5 – Winnipeg


July 6 – Ignace
July 7 – Thunder Bay
July 8 – Marathon
July 9 – Sault Ste Marie
July 10 – Sudbury
July 11 – Brechin

My Odyssey for Equality in Education

My Odyssey is underway! For the past two months (March – April), and continuing for the next four months (May – August), I have been and will be meeting with educational and community leaders in an effort to raise awareness about the increasing degree to which some children, most often boys, are underachieving in our schools. While school systems are making efforts to deal with the inequality that this represents, there appears to be little appetite for information from any groups outside of the system. The approach that is being used appears to be “more of the same.” Meanwhile, many other options are available. The Odyssey will encourage leaders in many fields related to children to share information and ideas.

As my travels unfold, I will provide regular reports so that those that are interested can share in my adventure with me.

Inequality starts early; fortunately, equality also starts early. Be part of the solution rather than part of the problem.

Expand the Inquiry: Include Men and Boys in the National Inquiry Into Missing and Murdered Indigenous People

Public Policy

Male Youth


Justin Trottier, Executive Director
Canadian Centre for Men and Families

Call to Action

  • Hang a necktie on March 31, 2016 in support of the campaign started by Lydia Daniels, whose son, Colten Pratt, is missing. Join your local CCMF branch (see details below) or hang neckties with friends in your own community. Take pictures and share them with your friends and with us by emailing them to:
  • Sign this petition “For a Gender-Inclusive Inquiry into Murdered and Missing Aboriginal Canadians”
  • Write the ministers involved in the inquiry and your own MP. Always be respectful.
    Find your MP’s email address using your postal code: Find Your MP
    Use this template OR write your own email to your MP and:
         Carolyn Bennett: Minister of Indigenous and Northern Affairs:
         Patty A. Hajdu: Minister of Status of Women:
         Jody Wilson-Raybould: Minister of Justice:
  • Share a link to this page with friends and use the hashtag #includemen

Introducing the Coalition to Expand the Inquiry

Help us in urging the federal government to include men and boys in the upcoming inquiry into missing and murdered indigenous women and girls.

Click here to donate to Expand the Inquiry

Read the response from Carolyn Bennett, Minister of Indigenous and North Affairs, following our request to Expand the Inquiry

Our Request:

Good Public Policy Should Be Built On All Available Data
A Request to the Government of Canada to Expand the Scope of the National Inquiry Into Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women

Media Advisory: Coalition Sends Federal Gov Request to Include Men in the Inquiry Into Murdered Indigenous Women

Breaking News Reports:

Media Advisory: National Inquiry Now has Opportunity to Listen to Indigenous Families Calling to Include Boys and Men
Media Advisory: Indigenous Families Heartbroken Murdered Sons Will Not be Meaningfully Included in the National Inquiry
Media Advisory: Coalition Applauds National Inquiry Announcement That Indigenous Boys and Men Will be Included

On December 15, 2016 A group of students at Port Credit Secondary School held an event wearing red ribbons and neckties as part of the Expand the Inquiry campaign. Neckties with red ribbons were placed around the school on International Human Rights day to honour both female and male victims of violence.


From December 6-8, 2016 the Coalition to Expand the Inquiry held a series of meetings in Ottawa.

Through meetings with the Minister of Justice, the Aboriginal First Nations Chief, and the Chair of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, we received a positive response from key policy makers, and scored major media coverage.

Watch Chief Ernie Crey on CBC News

Vancouver Sun:  B.C. aboriginals urge all genders be included in murdered women’s inquiry

Press Conference Coverage on MSN News





Senator Murray Sinclair, Head Commissioner of the Truth & Reconciliation Commission.

Minister of Justice, Jody Wilson-Raybould

Watch the Press Conference, held December 8, 2016.

Watch the Special Ottawa Panel Event December 7, 2016, featuring Coalition to Expand the Inquiry members:
Chief Ernie Crey, Cheam First Nation
Adam Jones, Professor of Political Science at the University of British Columbia
Justin Trottier, Executive Director, Canadian Centre for Men and Families (coalition member organization)

More than a year after the body of 26-year-old Charles Oudie was found in a storm drain in East Vancouver, his family members are still seeking answers and say police are not returning their calls. On December 3rd the Oudie Family generously agreed to sit down with members of CCMF Vancouver to pay tribute to Charles Oudie, share their struggle for answers, and state why a gender-inclusive inquiry into missing & murdered indigenous people is important.


October 8th: Watch “Expand the Inquiry!” A public event will take place in Vancouver on Saturday, October 8th, 6:30PM – 9:30PM PDT, featuring UBC Professor of Political Science Adam Jones, who has launched a petition calling for a gender-inclusive Inquiry, and BC Indigenous leader and author Chief Ernie Crey. The event will take place at Simon Fraser University’s Harbour Centre at 515 West Hastings Street and be available online by live streaming More information here.

Special Update: Mi’kmaw Native Centre and Public Service Alliance of Canada Join the Necktie Campaign

CCMF Halifax held its Necktie Campaign on National Aboriginal Day (June 21, 2016) at the Mi’kmaw Native Friendship Center in Halifax, in conjunction with a National Aboriginal Day celebration. The venue was at full capacity, with approximately 250 attendees. Debbie Eisan, administrator of the Mi’kmaw Native Friendship Center, is adding neckties to the Centre’s auditorium, and keep them on display indefinitely. Lori Walton, the National Vice President for Equity at the Public Service Alliance of Canada, is doing a Tie Drive among the PSAC membership to collect the ties needed for the permanent Necktie Campaign. We would like to express my deepest gratitude to Debbie Eisan, Lori Walton, and all of the great people at the Mi’kmaw Native Friendship Center and the Public Service Alliance of Canada for helping us to make the Necktie Campaign a great success.


Lydia Daniels, who is from Long Plain First Nation in Manitoba, came up with the necktie concept after being inspired by the Red Cloth Ribbons Memorial campaign that was started to honour missing and murdered Indigenous women. CCMF is proud to join Ms. Daniels’ initiative and to have her support as we launch a series of events in various parts of the country.

Read the Press Release

Join our press conference Thurday, March 31st at 11:00am local time in Toronto and Edmonton.
Toronto: Canadian Centre for Men and Families at 152 Carlton St.
Edmonton: Ezio Faraone Park (West side of the north end of the Highlevel bridge).
Manitoba: Lydia Daniels, who initiated this campaign, will support these events by hanging neckties

Victoria Island, Ottawa/Hull: Kevin Daniels, Interim National Chief of the Congress of Aboriginal Peoples joined a delegation including representatives of the Confederation of Aboriginal People of Ontario and Quebec, Grand Chief Thomas Square and Grand Chief Roger Fleury and Sue Martin of Home Fires Burning and others supporting the Neck Tie Campaign for Missing and Murdered Men and young boys. Since April 2015, Sue Martin has been in vigil, praying for a National Inquiry for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and girls. The delegation hang neck ties in a path leading to the Dept. of Indigenous Affairs in Hull and a representative of the Minister came down to accept their gift.

Over 70% of missing and murdered indigenous people are men and boys. They should be included in the inquiry.
Adam Jones: Aboriginal men are murdered and missing far more than aboriginal women. A proper inquiry would explore both

Videos from the launch of the necktie campaign on March 31, 2016

Press Conference

CCMF Edmonton Necktie Ceremoy

CCMF Toronto Necktie Ceremony


Press Coverage

Edmonton Journal:
Edmontonians call for men to be included in inquiry into missing and murdered indigenous women

Global News:
Necktie campaign urges the investigation of all cases of missing and murdered indigenous people

Canadian Men's Health Week 2015

Public Policy

Male Youth


Justin Trottier, Executive Director
Canadian Centre for Men and Families

Canadian Men’s Health Week 2015

Mountain ViewThe Canadian Centre for Men and Families is a partner agency for the Canadian Men’s Health Foundation’s Men’s Health Week 2015, which is taking place from June 15 – June 21.

For full information visit

You Check – A Health Awareness Tool built especially for men




Men’s Health Week Pledge Campaign

Mountain View

We are asking men and their families to take the ‘one click’ health pledge at and commit to better their health by making simple lifestyle changes like:

• To take the stairs instead of the elevator
• Choose salad as my side.
• Ask, “Does it come in whole wheat?”
• Get off my bus one stop earlier
• And eat more broccoli!

Today I join 1000’s of other Canadian men in taking the Pledge so I can be a healthier husband, father, son and friend.

• Women can also participate in this campaign by encouraging and challenging the men in their lives to take the pledge.

Over the week, CCMF will be posting information and tips #MensHealthWeek

Our Mission

Let’s Ignite the Men’s Health Movement!

• The Canadian Men’s Health Foundation (CMHF) launched in 2014 with the mission to inspire Canadian men to lead healthier lives. We launched the men’s health awareness campaign Don’t Change Much and it has been one of the many sparks in raising men’s health awareness
• CMHF recognizes that it will take a collaborative effort to fully ignite a men’s health and raise the consciousness of men’s health in Canada. That collaborative effort is Canadian Men’s Health Week
• Men’s Health Week takes place over 6 days concluding on Father’s Day
• The week is an open call to all Canadians to help build awareness and action to improve the health of men and families
• The week was 1st launched by CMHF in 2014 and is conducted in tandem with other burgeoning men’s health weeks in 7 countries. Since its inception in 2014 Men’s Health Week has been a collaborative effort, one where partnership is required to reach millions of men, in multiple ways and times


In 2015 Canadian Men’s Health Week will:
• Start conversations with, for and about men about their health & well being
• Increase awareness of men’s health and its impact on the individual, the family, the workplace, and society
• Become a legacy event that will change the landscape of men’s and family health in Canada

“Canada and its families would be in a better place if our men lived more active and healthier lives,” says Dr. Larry Goldenberg, CMHF Founder. In time men’s attention to health will become second nature, like wearing seatbelts.